Jeans: Levis Plus
Not a terribly inspiring outfit, but actually that’s not the point of today’s outfit!
Little (I suspect) known fact about bras: the support should come from the band, not the straps. Which means if you’ve got big boobs you need a good, tight band. And if you’ve got big boobs and are a bit squishy you’re going to have back rolls.
Years (and years and years) ago, before I started Frocks and Frou Frou, I discovered the Unbelievabra. Here’s my review on the Vogue Plus Size Fashion Forum, way back in 2008:
Oh My God, girls. I’m head over heels in love with my new Unbelievabra,
It’s like a sucking innie cami top whatnot with a built in bra, and it’s ohmigod comfortable, but what I LOVE is… NO BACKFAT! Hurrah! It gives you a really lovely smooth line, so I’m really looking forward to wearing all those tight tees and light knits that I couldn’t before because of the love handles. Pics for your interest:
Me, in my normal bra (after a long day, so it’s ridden up a bit, but still) vs me, in the Unbelievabra:
They’re not cheap… $85, plus $20 shipping, but honestly; I’ve paid more for a bra that I’ve been less happy with.
Staci – the woman who developed the bra is extraordinary, and really goes out of her way to make sure you’re happy, and wearing the right size.
It’s been a few years since I retired my last Unbelievabra and just got a bit more creative with how I dressed (cardigans, layers, blousy tops and slips cover a multitude of sins) but I’ve never forgotten how comfortable and flattering the Unbelievabra was.
Recently I decided I wanted another. I’ve put on a bit of weight, and in my job I’m spending a lot more time sitting down. I was sick of the welts around my ribcage, the constant digging and adjusting. I have some amazing bras (Ewa Michalak is my boob-guru) but I still can’t wait to have them off at the end of the day.
‘Unbelievabra’ has been rebranded as ‘Shapeez‘, and the range has been dramatically expanded, but the product is still as brilliant as ever.
A Shapeez bra differs from a regular bra in the way it resembles a tank-top from the back. Made from a moisture-wicking lycra fabric it provides a smooth line, and support without cutting in. There are two lengths – a full camisole that can be tucked into waistbands, and a shorter piece that resembles a regular bra from the front, but curves down to cut off at the waist at the back. Other variations are differences in neckline and strap width, and molded foam cups, or seamless non-padded cups.
I ended up buying the Silkee Long and the Tankee Short both of which sport the lower back neckline and cut-in shoulders that make more suitable for sleeveless tops and dresses. They both take a bit of contorting to get into (how I wish the front-fastening ‘Demee short’ was available in larger cup sizes) but once on they are ridiculously comfortable, and you can see, they work a treat.
This is me, wearing the Tankee Short, and as you can see the bra dramatically smooths the line of my back compared to my regular bra.
They’re still not cheap (between $80-$90) and International shipping is still fairly prohibitive ($45 to Australia), but you’re unlikely to ever find another bra with this much support that’s this comfortable and provides such a nice line under tight clothes. Consider it an investment.
I am buying one!! Thanks for the tip, lovely.
PS I also recommend the Miracle bra by Intimo (and based here in Oz).
Oooh – someone at my work swears by Intimo, but I’ve never tried them.
I think you look totally cute in this outfit, and that bra is fabulous. I’m going to have to see what their availability is in Canada.
Have a lovely day 🙂
I think they’re actually based in Canada, so you could be fine!
Did you just buy your regular size? Thanks for the recommend!
Hi Lindsey – They’ve got a really great size/measuring page here: http://shapeez.com/pages/sizing and I went off that. Everything fit totally fine when it arrived, perhaps I had slightly more room in the cups than I need, but probably not enough to warrant going down a size.
I know exactly what you mean about bra bands being uncomfortable and unseemly when you are squishy. Thanks for the tip!
My pleasure! I don’t know why other brands haven’t started doing something similar – it’s such a great idea.
Wow! I have to try this. Thank you!
My pleasure, Anna 🙂
Back fat is why I can’t have nice things! So getting one of these.
LOL, I totally know the feeling! You won’t regret it!
I looked at the sizing on Amazon for these, it is confusing in SML band sizes and cups seem to stop at a DD. Did you get the right size the first go around? I’m a 36 H so it’s probably hopeless but a girl can dream.
Hi Maggie, check out the sizing guide here: http://shapeez.com/pages/sizing – I ordered off the recommendation that came up when I plugged my details in, and it’s perfect. The customer service is great too – if you email them with your measurements they’ll give you some suggestions for what you should look for.
I bought the DDD, and it fit my FF cups fine (probably with room to spare) and I know they do an E in some styles 🙂
Thank you my dear! That is so helpful to know. So excited to order one. I don’t know why this design isn’t more widely used. <3
These look awesome. As soon as I can afford a couple, I’m buying!
Honestly, I’d probably be up for another if you want to share shipping when the time comes 🙂
Ugh boobs are the bane of my existence. But I must say this looks excellent
*wanders off to find my tape measure*
This is amazing – thank you so much for sharing this discovery! I curse the rolls that appear every time I put on a bra, especially in the summer when I can’t stand wearing the layers that would cover it up. I am definitely going to check these out. It looks like they’re actually available in a department store not too far from me, so I might even be able to try them on first!
Great! I hope you love them, Gina 🙂
I luuuurve the smoothing at the back but what I want to know is what’s the shape like at the front. Is the ‘minimising’ actually minimising? How do you feel about the padded vs non padded options??
Hey Bron, it’s good – not great, but perfectly OK. The padded one is probably my favourite in terms of shape: it’s sort of similar to my Freya Deco. Neither do any kind of visible minimising though!